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5 Jul

Polygyny and Blogging “Somethings Are better left Unblogged”

Posted by ummaslam in co-wife, marriage, plural marriage, polygamy, polygyny.

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Don’t get me wrong I enjoy blogging,  but I feel somethings should not be blogged.

 

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  1. Posted by Safiyah Mujahid on July 6, 2009 at 10:38 AM

    I understand what you are saying here and on our blog . I still don’t know what’s the big deal i feel i didn’t blog anything too secrect on this post WE have blog worst in past .Seriously UmmAslam get off your secret horse i havent blog any of our secrest just my feeling inshallah i will be cautious shukron for the reminder. As far as us mvoing over to wordpress the blog is not just yours and I do all the posting and editiing Qayyah does not post anymore so that would not be fair whats idk mean.love ya fissibillallah

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  2. Posted by Amatullah on July 6, 2009 at 12:19 AM

    As-Salaamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatuhu,
    Alhamdulillah while I believe that there are some things that shouldn’t be said as well but I do understand that most polygyny blogs or post are a source of coping for others. Some people in polygynous marriages cannot discuss their issues within family boundaries so blogging has become there out. Some find sincere help and others don’t. Now I’m not saying one should backbite there co-wife I believe that we should use hikmah (not anger) in how we word things so backbiting isn’t what we fall into. Just my 2 cent and end the end it’s worth nothing…
    Fee Amanillah

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  3. Posted by ummaslam on July 5, 2009 at 6:18 PM

    Thats exactly what I’m talking about and you’ve read the one comment someone left to Us so I feel like don’t add fuel to the fire sorta speak I think somethings should not be blogged . Just hope I didn’t come off as a B**** you know. Thanks for the comment

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    • Posted by Rambling Muslimah on July 5, 2009 at 6:38 PM

      nope, nit like a B**** at all. It’s true, and its from our way, to mind our own business, and not spread our business. Subhanallah it does cause fitnah especially when strangers are up in your B I. lol

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  4. Posted by Rambling Muslimah on July 5, 2009 at 4:56 PM

    as salaamu alaykum.

    Umm Aslam I agree with you. I am all for blogging as well, but sometimes the things that are put out causes more harm than good. People blog poems and feelings and its only one side of the story, but then you’ll have complete strangers in your business that you don’t want to discuss with others. Somethings should be handled & discussed within family boundaries. My husband does not want us blogging or venting about polygyny for that reason. Also it gives the “haters” more to say.

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